After years of faking orgasms with my ex, I want to climax with my boyfriend

I am 43 and was married for 15 years. My husband could never understand why I didn’t climax, so eventually I started to fake it.

Then, 18 months ago, I found out he was having an affair and we split up.

I was happy to be single until a colleague introduced me to her brother and the attraction was instant. He is 42 and wonderful. We have been together for five months and I get turned on with him.

DEIDRE SAYS: For most women, intercourse alone will not lead to orgasm. The right stimulation is needed to reach a climax. Years of faking it with your ex have not helped.

Experiment on your own to work out what does the trick for you. Then show your partner how he can do it.

My e-leaflet Orgasm For Women explains more.

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