I can't believe my partner's been searching for female and male escorts

DEAR DEIDRE: I CAUGHT my partner searching online for escorts, both men and women. Then he admitted sleeping with a female escort during lockdown.

He had explicit photos of other women on his phone and had searched the internet for chatrooms.

I’m 35, he is 37 and we have been together for six years. I had an inkling something was wrong because he had refused to be intimate with me.

I also saw he’d been searching for STI symptoms on his ­laptop.

He assured me he didn’t meet the women he had been chatting to and only had sex with the escort.

He also says he isn’t gay or bi, just curious and looking for excitement.

I feel like he has ruined the past six years. In my head, our relationship starts again from when I learned the truth and chose to stay with him.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Tell your partner you care about him a lot so you need him to be honest with you.

Maybe he has suppressed gay feelings and if so, my support pack Bisexual Issues will help him come to understand himself. He has to sort that out first.

Your trust has been shattered but it is possible to rebuild it. He must take ownership of how much he has hurt you and be truly sorry.

My support pack Cheating – Can You Get Over It? can help you on that front.

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