I discovered my wife has loans for £10k but she won't say where the money went

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I opened my partner’s bank statement by mistake I got a real shock as it revealed she has loans for £10,000.

I am 50 and on the minimum wage. She is 47 and works in a bakery. We have been together for 25 years.

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When I asked her about the loans, she said it was none of my business and they will be cleared in two years.

I would love to sort this out. We have never bought things on borrowed money except cars over the past 20 years.

I love her but wonder what else she is hiding.

DEIDRE SAYS: She might have kept this secret from you because she knew how worried you would be.

She says she has the debt repayment planned – but is that realistic? Tell her you are on her side and will listen in a non-judgemental way but want to know the facts.

If there is a worry, then contact the National Debtline (0808 808 4000, nationaldebtline.org).

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