I’m a married man but long to walk down the street in a dress and high heels – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: AS a man, I’m longing to walk down the street in a dress, wig and high heels. I’m 45 and I feel like I’m reaching the point where I’m not in control.

I’ve secretly cross-dressed since I was eight. I’m married with two teenage girls and they have no idea about this.


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I keep female clothes in the loft. I used to throw them out now and then and promise myself not to buy them again. Now I keep going further.

I wear knickers and tights under my work clothes and know one day I’ll get caught.

In the meantime, my marriage is not going well.

We have separate beds. Separate rooms will be next. That’s not what I want but I can’t seem to change.

DEIDRE SAYS: You can’t change who you are and you can’t save your marriage while keeping this secret inside.

It is not easy, I know, but it is only fair to be honest with your wife finally.

At least then she will know what the cause of the tensions between you might be and will then have a choice.

Find support first through the Beaumont Society, a self-help group for the trans community (beaumontsociety.org.uk, 01582 412220).

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