My boyfriend is trying to arrange casual sex hook-ups on Tinder but says he was just curious

DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend is advertising himself on Tinder for sex meetings.

I’m 21 and my boyfriend is 24. I saw he was on Tinder a while ago when a message came up on his phone but I put it out of my mind.


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Then something else flashed up on his phone last week so I looked when he was in the shower and saw he’s got a recent profile on there.

I apologised for snooping but asked him what he was doing.

He said it was just curiosity and he’d never cheat.

I want to believe him but he has crushed my confidence.

And why did he forgive me for snooping if he’s done nothing wrong?

DEIDRE SAYS: Probably because he wanted to deflect the attention away from his poor behaviour.

He could hardly have a go at you when he’s doing something underhand.

Tell him he should be focusing on you.

What would raise your self-esteem?

Going out more together?

Whatever it is, tell him.

Explain that you’re over if things do not improve within a month because you should be first on his list of priorities.

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