My partner has gone off sex since giving birth – should I look elsewhere?

DEAR DEIDRE:  MY partner has gone off sex since she had our daughter. I’m thinking about looking elsewhere to satisfy my needs.

I am 30 and my partner is 28. We have had a brilliant relationship and sex life but my partner has zero interest since she had our little girl a year ago. She will occasionally give in but it has now been two sexless months. We used to have sex twice a week.

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I love her very much but I find it so frustrating. I have a high sex drive and I struggle with our lack of intimacy. How can I get the spark back?

DEIDRE SAYS: Hormone changes around giving birth and exhaustion from looking after a baby 24/7 can affect sex drive. How sexy would you feel if you’d lived her life over the last 18 months?

Stop focusing on your needs, focus on hers.

Maybe give your partner some days off while you are a real hands-on parent, so she can rediscover herself as a sexy woman.

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