My pregnant partner keeps changing her mind about having the baby – should I leave?

DEAR DEIDRE:  AFTER learning she is pregnant, my partner isn’t happy.

She keeps changing her mind about having the baby. Should I cut loose?

I’m 39, have a son aged five and split from his mum a year ago but have remained a hands-on dad.

I miss being part of a family and always wanted more children.

I met a woman at work nine years younger than me. She is a single mum with a six-year-old daughter.

She came on to me and I eventually fell for her too.

I do everything for her, from childcare to financial support.

I don’t expect thanks but she constantly criticises me. Now we row constantly.

I don’t want to be single but I don’t think our relationship can work, even with a baby on the way.

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DEIDRE SAYS: You must talk honestly with her and say you are thinking of leaving, as that could affect her decision over this pregnancy.

My e-leaflet on Unplanned Pregnancy can help her.

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