Should I leave my partner to start a steamy relationship with my ex-boyfriend?
I’m 27. We dated in our teens but split when he cheated on me. I then met my current partner. He’s 29. We’ve been together for seven years and have two beautiful daughters, aged two and four.
My ex wants to see me for old time’s sake. I refused at first, though I’ve always been in love with him. I love my partner and he would do anything for me but I’m just not in love with him. We are more like friends living together with occasional sex.
I eventually agreed to meet up with my first love but pulled out a few days before, eaten up with guilt. But I’d love to leave and spend my life with him.
DEIDRE SAYS: It can be tempting to wallow in nostalgia for teenage love when you have so many responsibilities – but he was a cheat then and isn’t worried about tempting you to cheat now.
If you succumb, it won’t end happily.
Break contact with him and focus on getting passion into your current relationship.
My e-leaflet Torn Between Two Men? can help.
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