I agreed for husband to have vasectomy and now I want another baby | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER our daughter was born, my husband had a vasectomy.

Now I’ve realised I’m desperate to have another baby and I’m consumed with regret.

I’m 33 and my husband is 35.Our daughter is 18 months old.

I had a difficult pregnancy and birth and swore I didn’t want another baby.

As the pill doesn’t agree with me, and my husband hates condoms, he agreed to have a vasectomy.

I realised it was a mistake immediately, and prayed it had failed.

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But despite lots of unprotected sex, I haven’t got pregnant since.

I want to give our daughter a sibling. How can I live with what I’ve done?

DEIDRE SAYS: Do not beat yourself up. You made the right decision at the time.

Talk to your husband about your feelings.

If he wants to try for another child, he may be able to get a reversal.

Or there might be some other kind of medical intervention possible.

Counselling would help you and my support pack about it explains more.