My wifes having sleazy sex with my mate after he invited her to the football
When my wife admitted that she’d never been to a football match, my mate offered to take her on his season ticket.
Now they’re in love. They bonded over a hot pie and Bovril.
They can’t keep their hands off each other. She’s going round to his place for sneaky sex sessions virtually every day while I’m working myself to death doing up the wreck of a house we bought together.
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I accused her of disloyalty and stupidity, she says she can’t help it – she’s obsessed with my mate and can’t get enough of his body.
I feel like such a twit. I should never have suggested the match. He’s a notorious womaniser and has had more girlfriends than I’ve had spots.
I’ve told her what he’s like, that he’ll use and exploit her, but she doesn’t care. She’s in a lust-filled world of her own.
Meanwhile, my Mum wants to know where my wife keeps going as we’re currently living together in a caravan on her driveway.
I admit, things are grim. Mum isn’t happy because she wants us gone. The problem is that our house/money pit is taking forever to fix up because I’ve had trouble getting bricks, plaster, and trades. I’m trying to do as much as I can, but my wife has left me completely in the lurch.
She’d rather chill in my mate’s swish pad while I half kill myself. It’s so humiliating and hard.
My own brother says I’m crazy because we all know what he’s like. I could kick myself.
JANE SAYS: Your wife clearly isn’t silly. I suspect she’s sick of the caravan and the hard work of the renovation.
But she can’t fob you off or ignore you forever.
At some stage she has to tell you what she’s planning.
I understand that you’re not getting much sense out of her at the moment, but are he and she now a couple?
Does she plan to move in with him full-time or is this just a fling?
I understand your frustration – since trying to be kind to her by suggesting the footie match, everything has blown up in your face. You now realise that you can’t trust him or her, which is disappointing.
Accept that he is no friend of yours and can’t be in your company again in the future.
Tell your mum that relations are complicated right now and you’d appreciate her getting off your back and giving you some space and peace while you attempt to fix things.
Can your brother, or other family members or (decent) mates help you to get the house done up so that you can finally crack it?
Put your energy into finishing the project and either moving in or selling up.
Was your marriage in trouble before the fateful trip to the football match? You and your wife will need to start talking once she comes back down to earth again.
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