I'm a dating expert – here are 3 things your partner should NEVER say

I’m a dating expert and here are 3 things your boyfriend or girlfriend should NEVER say to you

• Jacob Lucas is a professional dating coach and TikTokker who is based in the UK
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A dating coach has revealed three things your partner should never say while in a relationship.

Jacob Lucas is a UK-based coach who has used his real-life methods to ‘help millions of people get the love life they have always wanted’.

As well as working directly with clients he shares dating content on TikTok with his 750,000 followers. He is also the author of guidebook Her Dating Coach.

In a recent video he outlined three things partners should not say to each other – saying that if your partner does any of these things they may not be a good person to be in a relationship with.

The dating coach (pictured) listed three things your boyfriend or girlfriend should never say to you while in a relationship

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In the video, he says: ‘I am a professional dating coach, and here are three things that your boyfriend or girlfriend should never say or do when in a relationship with you. 

‘And if your partner is doing any of these things, then you might want to reconsider if that is the right person for you, because these are all major, big red flags.

‘Number one, whenever they do not get their own way with you, they ghost you as a form of punishment.’

He says someone who does this will be wanting you to chase them, so ‘they feel superior over you and feel like they’re getting their own way again’.

Mr Lucas added: ‘This also shows me that they do not know how to articulate [themselves] in a proper way. 

‘So the result is stupid tactics, such as ghosting their own boyfriend and girlfriend, and this is not the type of person that you want to be in a relationship with.’

Moving onto the next point, he says: ‘Number two, whenever you are in an argument with your boyfriend or girlfriend, instead of discussing it in a calm manner, they always say they’re going to leave the relationship when they actually have no intention of leaving you at all. 

‘They are trying to get you anxious about them leaving you, so you become a lot more agreeable with whatever they are saying. 

Jacob (pictured) said that threatening to leave when they don’t mean it is a toxic way some people engage during arguments

‘If they want to leave you then whatever, but it should not be seen it as a tool to win an argument. 

‘This is a really immature, horrible tactic that your partner should never do to you ever.’

His final point is also an unpleasant behaviour that he says partners should never do to each other.

He explains: ‘Number three…is a horrible thing to do in a relationship. 

‘And it will always cause an argument. It’s when they start negatively comparing you to other people – especially their exes.’