Wife's ex tutor sends her odd messages and I am wondering about relationship | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife’s former tutor called, asking her to lend him some money because he was ill and in hospital.

I innocently agreed so she wired him £250 to where he now lives in South Africa.

We told him we didn’t want him to pay us back.

I am 41 and my wife is 36. We have been married for 12 years and have two children.

My wife’s tutor is now a retired 70-year-old.

I’ve never had cause to doubt my wife’s loyalty, but I had a look at her WhatsApp and found some odd messages from this man.

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He sends her love poems and songs, and comments on her golden hair and smile.

My wife laughed when I told her I’d seen the messages.

I can’t help but wonder if there was a relationship between them in the past.

DEIDRE SAYS: Perhaps there was but it’s history.

You may feel unhappy about her past, but she chose you – and you’re the one she is spending her life with.

She may have laughed because to her they are the innocent musings of an older man many miles away.

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