I broke up with my fiancée because I was sick of waiting for sex – I regret it | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I BROKE up with my fiancée because I got fed up waiting for sex, but I think I’ve made a terrible mistake. 

Although neither of us are virgins, she said she’d become intimate too early in previous relationships and so wanted to wait until we were married.

I’m 30 and she’s 28. We were together for two years.

At first, I was very patient. I knew she’d been hurt by past boyfriends.

But I started to feel more and more frustrated, and annoyed that she didn’t trust me. It led to arguments. 

I thought once we got engaged, she’d see I was committed and would change her mind. That didn’t happen.

We ended up having a major row about it and I said her “born-again virgin” act was pathetic, and I couldn’t be with her. 

I regret it so much. But she’s not even speaking to me. 

How can I make her see we are meant to be together?

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DEIDRE SAYS: Your fiancée withheld sex to see if you were committed. But by doing so, she made you feel she didn’t trust you. There was a huge communication problem between you. 

Think carefully before you try to win her back or you could just end up becoming sexually frustrated again. 

Perhaps send her a message saying you’d like to talk calmly. Maybe there’s a deeper issue she hasn’t told you about.  

Couples counselling could help. Contact tavistockrelationships.org (020 7380 1960).

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