I’m petrified my mum’s violent boyfriend is going to kill her | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M petrified my mum’s boyfriend is going to kill her.

It’s a complete mystery to me why she is with someone so violent and vicious.

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She is clever, attractive and has a good job managing a big sales team, so why can’t she get rid of this loser?

I’m 25 and she’s 53. Her boyfriend is 56.

Last month he smashed a window because she wouldn’t let him back in her home after an argument.

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Then he smashed up her home before running off into the night.

I keep telling her that she needs to finish with him but she insists he’s changed.

DEAR DEIDRE

My mistress dumped me because I didn't go to her mum's funeral

DADDY ISSUES

IN MY DREAMS

THANK YOU

DEIDRE SAYS: It can be so frustrating watching someone you love being controlled by an abusive partner, but please be patient and supportive.

Instead of saying, ‘Why don’t you just leave’, try saying things like, ‘I know it will seem daunting to leave’.

Tell her you are worried about her safety.

And give her my support pack, Abused By A Partner, to help her understand her situation and give her support and information.

Unless her partner gets specialist help, sadly he won’t ever change.