Partner is not speaking to me because I won't go swinging with her | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner is in a right old sulk because I won’t try out a swinging session with her.

She says it’s on her list of things that she wants to do before settling down and having kids.

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I thought we had a great relationship and a good sex life until she threw this suggestion into the mix.

I’m 28 and she’s 27. I told her I was a one-woman man, but she just rolled her eyes and stormed out, calling me boring.

She’s barely spoken to me for weeks and has told her parents that we’ve had a big falling-out.

Now they’re threatening to pull out of giving us the deposit for our new home if I don’t apologise.

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But no way am I apologising when I don’t feel that I’ve done anything wrong.

I’m considering walking away from this relationship altogether. We’re due to move in two months.

DEAR DEIDRE

My mistress dumped me because I didn't go to her mum's funeral

DADDY ISSUES

IN MY DREAMS

THANK YOU

DEIDRE SAYS: You are right to refuse to go swinging if you are in any way unsure about it.

But please do ask your fiancée why she is attracted to the idea.

Perhaps your sex life needs a little pick up?

My support pack, Thrilling A Woman In Bed, could help.

If your relationship is to survive, she needs to learn to talk through any differences with you, rather than sulking for weeks on end.

She must also set the record straight with her parents.