Lover's dad makes comments about our sex life and even slapped my bum | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: WHY doesn’t my boyfriend defend me when his dad makes inappropriate comments about our relationship?

His dad, who is in his fifties, talked loudly in front of the whole family about hearing us have sex – even making noises.

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And he once slapped me on my bum.

I am 23 and my boyfriend is 21. He is a student but still lives at home, so his family are always around.

When I told him how upset I was, instead of asking his dad to treat me with more respect, he said I hated his dad.

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Now his parents don’t like me and I think they want him to break up with me.

I wonder now if we have a future.

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DEIDRE SAYS: His dad was out of line discussing your sex life.

Your boyfriend needs to stand up to him but perhaps he is scared of how his dad will react.

Tell him how you feel and say that without his support you don’t think the relationship can last.


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If things are otherwise good between you, perhaps meet at your place and not his.

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