My grown-up twins won't leave home and treat me like a doormat | The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: THEY are 30 years old and still live at home, but my twins don’t lift a finger around the house.

I’m a 63-year-old single mum and they treat like a doormat.

They might be men now but they are ruining my life.

One of them has a job, but the other is unemployed and doesn’t surface from his bed until noon.

Neither of them muck in to help around the house and when I return home from work there’s always a sink full of washing up to greet me and I’m fed up with it.

My friends always tell me I’ve been too easy on them when in fact I’m always shouting at them. I want them to clean up or get out. But I don’t have the heart to kick them out on the street.

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DEIDRE SAYS: It seems they prefer to rely on you rather than taking responsibility for themselves.

Draw up a list of weekly chores and put their names to them.

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