My teacher took my virginity at 14 – now I realise that was abuse | The Sun
DEAR DEIDRE: I WAS 14 when I lost my virginity to my female support teacher. She was 51.
I’m now a man of 28 and didn’t feel bad about this until my daughter was born recently. Then I realised it was child abuse.
I was a horny teenager back then and thought I knew what I was doing.
I’d been off sick long-term with Lyme disease and my support teacher was helping me catch up.
Mum didn’t think anything of me going to her house at weekends for extra lessons but we spent most of the time having sex.
When I think about that time now, it turns my stomach.
I am debating whether to tell my family.
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But what would happen if I did?
Would my girlfriend look at me differently? Or should the past stay in the past?
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DEIDRE SAYS: The fact this has started to play on your mind shows you need help coming to terms with the abuse – and deciding whether you want to take things further.
You can talk in confidence with the NSPCC (nspcc.org.uk, 0808 800 5000) for understanding and guidance.
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It is not important that this happened 14 years ago.
If you decide you want to pursue justice, you can still approach the police and make a statement.
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