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DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife treats me like dirt and it’s driving me into her best friend’s arms.
Ever since we got married, my wife has talked to me like I’m a piece of dog poo on her shoe.
She has no respect for me – she calls me names, flirts with other men and expects me to do all the housework, even though I work full-time and she doesn’t.
I’m 34 and she is 32.
We have a five-year-old daughter and I don’t want my girl growing up thinking this is how you treat the people you love.
My wife’s best friend has been a shoulder to cry on.
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Lately, I’ve realised I’ve started to fall for her.
I won’t act on it because I’m not a cheat, but she’s made me realise what I’m missing – kindness, affection and respect.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your wife’s behaviour is emotionally abusive.
My Abusive Partner support pack explains more.
You need to tell her how this is making you feel and how it’s affecting your daughter.
I advise couples counselling. Contact tavistockrelationships.org (020 7380 1960).
An affair won’t help, as you know.
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