I bumped into my married daughter at a sex party and keep getting flashbacks
MY daughter won’t talk to me after we bumped into each other at a sex party.
I’m 58 and split up with her mum two years ago.
Our daughter is 32 and I thought she was happily married.
So I was really shocked — as well as embarrassed, of course — to see her at this do. I keep getting flashbacks to that night and it makes me cringe so much.
I have always been to sex parties, even with my ex-wife, and this particular venue was a regular haunt of mine.
I’d agreed to meet a ladyfriend outside, as single men aren’t allowed in.
On arrival we went for a couple of drinks and it wasn’t until we entered one of the play rooms that it all went horribly wrong. On one side, there was a line of men all getting pleasured by different women, which looked like fun.
We joined in at the end of the line.
Part of the pleasure at these venues is taking in the surroundings. But this time I got the shock of my life.
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When I looked down the line, I recognised my daughter with someone who wasn’t her husband.
As I spotted her, she glanced over and clocked me. It was mortifying and I scarpered.
I had always been really close to my daughter, even after I split up with her mum.
She is my only child and we used to love going for walks and to the pub together. But since that night, she won’t pick up my calls or reply to my texts.
I don’t even know if her husband is aware she was there.
A part of me thinks she shouldn’t judge me.
After all, she was doing exactly the same as me.
I really want to forget about that night and move on.
I’ve heard she is pregnant with her first child and am worried now I won’t even get to meet my first grandchild.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I am sure that your daughter isn’t judging you. She is no doubt preoccupied with her own embarrassment and perhaps she is worried her secret will come out.
Keep trying to contact her. You could write her a letter, without going into the details of that evening, and tell her you love her very much and miss her.
Let her know that if ever she wants to talk – about anything – you will always be there for her.
Don’t give up on her and I am sure she will have a change of heart once she realises you are not going to judge her or spill the beans.
You do not say when this took place but these sex parties are best avoided, as they risk spreading not just coronavirus but STIs.
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