My brother likes watching and taking photos of me naked in the shower

DEAR DEIDRE: WHENEVER I have a shower, my brother takes nude pictures of me on his iPhone to wind me up.

I think he’s autistic because he doesn’t understand boundaries. I’ve told him to stop but he doesn’t understand why it’s so wrong.

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It’s making me want to punch him. He’s 20, I’m his 18-year-old brother and we still live at home with our mum.

Now I wonder if I should start taking pictures of him in the bathroom too, so he realises how annoying it is.

He’s always had problems with communication and normal relationships.

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If I try to talk about this he just laughs.

I love him, but I can’t take much more of this.

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Please don’t punch him or retaliate by taking pictures of him. That will only cause more problems.

Talk to your mum and contact the National Autistic Society ( It has forums where you can chat to others.#

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