Sex life with my partner has plummeted since I gave birth and now he won’t come near me – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: MY sex life has plummeted since I gave birth to my baby boy six months ago.

My partner is a great dad but he won’t come near me now.

I get sex once a week if I’m lucky and I miss it so much.

We used to have a great and varied sex life.

My partner says he’s not bored with me but when we share a romp it’s so mechanical.

I’ve asked him how I could spice things up but he says he doesn’t know.

I feel isolated and ugly right now. How can I get him back interested in me? He is 30 and I’m 24.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Tell your partner this is affecting your relationship and therefore your family unit so he must try to give you both some insight.

Was your partner there for the birth and maybe shocked by it? Or is he worried about getting you pregnant again?

My e-leaflet, Sex Problems After A Baby, explains how to resolve this.

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